Self Awareness and Why It Matters

confidence Jan 13, 2021

Self-awareness is the process of focusing on who you are and acknowledging not only your strengths but your weaknesses as well. You understand your habits, likes, dislikes, the way you view the world, and your needs. You know what you want in life and have an understanding of your emotional responses.

Having self-awareness doesn’t solve your challenges in life, but it gives you an accurate starting point and allows you to develop a game plan for solutions.


Self-awareness takes time to develop, but the benefits are well worth the effort.


Here are some tips to help you in your quest for self-awareness:

  1. Reflect on who you are and who you’d like to become.
    While it’s important to notice your faults and weaknesses, it’s equally important to acknowledge your strengths. The better you understand yourself, the better you’re able to accept yourself as you are or change the things you’d like to be different. Self-awareness requires you to be honest with yourself and have the courage to change the things you can.


    Looking deep within yourself, you’ll find the many character traits that make you unique. Begin by acknowledging the positive things. This will strengthen and encourage you to face the less favorable character traits without abandoning your new venture. On the other hand, when evaluating your strengths, don't let your ego get the best of you. If you magnify either your strengths or your weaknesses, you can’t possibly get a realistic picture of yourself.

  2. Pay attention to your likes and dislikes.
    Far too often, people make life-changing choices without acknowledging deeply rooted personal preferences. Before you embark on goals for your future, have a full awareness of the things you especially enjoy and those you prefer not to have in your life.


  3. Face your inner self.
    During your self-awareness process, think about your motivations, dreams, fears, and stressors. Think about why you feel the way you do, then begin to work toward overcoming these inner battles.

  4. Ask your loved ones’ opinions.
    Talk to people who know you best and really listen to what they see as your dominant character traits and motivations. Ask them to be completely honest with you and be prepared to hear their opinions. You may not be your own best judge of character.

    Accept the way your loved ones see you as part of this process.
    Consider their opinions along with your own analysis in order to see the full picture of who you are.


Self-awareness is a necessary part of self-esteem and change. If you want to grow as an individual, begin with a complete and honest picture of who you are now. This total awareness will start your journey to becoming the best you can be.